Bladur\'s Gate 3: Complete Romance Guide

This guide details all romance options in Baldur's Gate 3, categorizing them into long-term and one-night stand possibilities. Remember, romance options are available regardless of your character's gender. However, pursuing multiple romances simultaneously may negatively impact your relationships.

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• All Romance Options
• Shadowheart
• Gale
• Astarion
• Karlach
• Wyll
• Lae'zel
• Halsin
• Minthara
• One-Off Romance Options

All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

Understanding BG3 Romance:

Each romance path varies significantly. Some involve extended courtship, while others offer brief encounters. Choices made throughout the game heavily influence your romantic prospects. You can be locked out of certain romances if you pursue others or fail to meet specific requirements within a given timeframe. Companion NPCs generally offer more involved storylines than one-off romances.

Companion Romance Options:

• Shadowheart
• Gale
• Astarion
• Karlach
• Wyll
• Lae'zel
• Halsin
• Minthara

One-Off Romance Options:

• Mizora
• Guardian/Emperor
• Drow Twins
• Haarlep
• Naoise Nallinto

How to Romance Shadowheart:

Shadowheart, often a first companion, displays early interest with increased approval. Romance is possible throughout the game, but choices impact the relationship's trajectory.

• Keep her in your party.
• Boost her approval: Kindness, non-violence, and respecting her privacy are key.
• Act I: Look for dialogue options indicating missed connection opportunities. A party scene offers a chance for intimacy.
• Act II: Support her choices regarding Selune or Shar.
• Act III: Complete her quest for a final romantic encounter.

Special Notes: Shadowheart may end the relationship if you pursue other romances, though this isn't always consistent.

How to Romance Gale:

Gale, a wizard from Waterdeep, is receptive to romance. His storyline significantly impacts the game's plot.

• Rescue him early.
• Comply with his requests: Consume magical items.
• Act I: Participate in his magic lesson, choosing romantic dialogue options.
• Act I/II Transition: Support him during the Elminster cutscene.
• Act III: Keep him alive, read "The Annals of Karsus," and speak with him before resting.

Special Notes: Gale is not open to polyamorous relationships.

How to Romance Astarion:

Astarion's witty personality and devil-may-care attitude make him a popular romance choice. He's also one of the most open-minded romantic partners.

• High approval: Self-serving choices and sarcasm generally increase his approval.
• Allow him to drink your blood.
• Act I Party: Choose romantic dialogue options.
• Act II: Take Raphael's deal to learn about Astarion's scars.
• Act III: Complete his quest for final romantic scenes.

Special Notes: Astarion is the most tolerant of other romantic interests.

How to Romance Karlach:

Karlach is a challenging but rewarding romance. She's sensitive about other romantic partners.

• Side with her against the Paladins.
• Collect Infernal Iron: Dammon can help repair her infernal engine.
• Act I Party: Express your feelings and initiate a kiss.
• Act II: Use Infernal Iron to further repair her engine.
• Act III: Take her on a date.

Special Notes: She's strongly monogamous and will react negatively to other romances.

How to Romance Wyll:

Wyll's conflicted nature adds depth to his romance.

• High approval: Heroic actions and supporting his quests.
• Rescue Halsin and Tieflings.
• Act I Party: Initiate a romantic encounter.
• Act II: A romantic encounter after a long rest.
• Act III: Help him save his father and complete his dragon quest.

How to Romance Lae'zel:

Lae'zel shows early interest, offering both short-term and long-term romance options.

• High approval: Aggressive actions and intimidation.
• Speak to her in camp: Initiate a one-night stand.
• Act II: A duel leads to a romantic encounter.
• Act III: Her choice between Vlaakith and Orpheus impacts the outcome.

Special Notes: Lae'zel is monogamous and will end the relationship if you cheat.

How to Romance Halsin:

Halsin's romance is popular among players.

• Rescue him from the Goblin Camp.
• Complete his quests in Act II.
• Keep him in your party: Kindness and respect for nature increase his approval.
• Exhaust dialogue options: Look for conversations about past lovers.

How to Romance Minthara:

Minthara's romance is unique due to her antagonistic role.

• Side with her against the Emerald Grove.
• Express your loyalty: Choose dialogue options indicating allegiance.
• Attend the goblin party: Initiate a romantic encounter.

Special Notes: This choice significantly alters the game's narrative and relationships with other characters.

One-Off Romance Options:

These romances offer brief encounters and do not develop into long-term relationships. Details for each are omitted for brevity but can be found in more comprehensive guides. Note that pursuing these might negatively affect your existing long-term relationships.

• Mizora: Requires Wyll in your party and avoiding siding with Minthara.
• Guardian/Emperor: Requires protecting the Guardian/Emperor in the Act II/III transition.
• Drow Twins: Found in Sharess' Caress in Act III.
• Haarlep: Found in Raphael's home, the House of Hope.
• Naoise Nallinto: Also found in Sharess' Caress.

This revised guide provides a concise overview of all romance options in Baldur's Gate 3. Remember to save frequently to explore different choices and outcomes!